STEREOh-So-Typical Thursdays.

I don't know how often I'm out with my children and someone has to comment on how unusual it is to see a father out doing something with his children. It happens as often as people look at my wife and me, or make an offhanded comment (usually to my wife) that lets us know that they think that I am merely the Baby-daddy here.
Seriously... are men that bad? So much so that the majority of women believe we are completely incapable of long-term (as in life-long), loving relationships with our significant others and our children? Are men so against being involved with their kids' lives ?
I guess I'm among the lucky ones. My father was there as much as he could be.
He had to works shifts, he is a security guard, and he is older than most of the parents of my friends (this year I turn 30, while he turns 75).
There are a lot of people who say that he wasn't involved with my brother and me, but, they never saw behind the scenes.
From his example, from his lifestyle, I learned the values of moderation, learned of honour, the strength of peace, and spirituality.
So, I just cannot fathom how a man can NOT want to be a father, and\or a husband?
I also cannot fathom why so many men, not wanting to be a father, and\or a husband, are just makin' babies left right and centre.
Seriously... do you guys think that the Stork brings them? When you go to do the deed and talk your temporary girl into not making you suit up... do you really think that nothing will happen at all? Perhaps you failed sex ed? Or maybe your parent(s) failed to explain something... see, when a man and a woman love each other very much, they come together and [[sometimes] get married and] express their love (see: lust) in a beautiful (or, maybe twisted, degrading and sick) physical way. The man inserts his pennus into the woman's vajinna (fabulous Un-Prize to the first to get the reference), and after sometime the both (hopefully) experience a mini-explosion.
Then, little white tadpoles called sperm travel out of the man's penis, through special tubes inside the women to a special egg. One of the tadpoles gets into the egg and that is how babies are made.
So, next time you're about to do the dirty, guys, remember that the tadpoles inside your pennus are made specifically to make a baby with your lady's egg through her vajinna... Sex is where babies come from, and if you aren't ready to be a father, think about where you're sticking your baby-maker.
That's all I've got for now.
Tomorrow is Friday: Your WeekEnds, Mine Doesn't.
=DK=